Bachelor Party: Bride vs. Grooms Perspective

Bachelor parties are of much debate many times and can sometimes throw a wrench in the wonderfully beautiful idea of marriage. When it comes to a bachelor party, men and women think completely different. Before you both start tossing around emotions, letís look at each person's perspective. 

For the women, a bachelor party is a scary thing. The first things that run through your mind are strippers and lap dances. Although this is a typical way to have a bachelor party, men are choosing other routes lately instead. Letís take the traditional wild and crazy bachelor party for example. 

First you need to understand that his buddies are the ones that choose the bachelor party activities. Second, he sees this as his last time to really hang out with the guys. It is a time where guys can be guys and his buddies get to rag on him big time. 

The bridezilla in you wants to say he canít have a wild bachelor party but you know that is not what is right. You are in a committed relationship where you trust and respect each other. By all means, you can let him know how you feel about it but for you to restrict him from it only shows an immaturity level in your relationship. 

In his head, he loves you and is coming home to you. He does not want anything to do with those strippers. Honestly, the strippers and lap dances are more for his friends than anything. It gives his friends an excuse to act wild and crazy. You are the one that captured his heart and in the end, that is all that matters.